MIT

This is a summary of a short but meaningful discussion with my chubby friend: Rommy “Rombeng” Rukyanto, yesterday.

When clarity of life is low, when options are hard to choose and risky, you became disoriented. And you need to get through of it.

Start by answer this question, “WHAT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THINGS (MIT) IN YOUR LIFE?”

Be clear on it. Be sure that you are correct. Be sure that you honest to yourself.

~ Beware if you don’t have clear and correct answer.

If you have found an answer, aim for that. Allocate all of your resources to have that. That is your MIT in your life, so it’s worth all of your life.

Get focus. Life has so many facets. You will be lost if you didn’t get focus.

Sometimes, your most important things demand your sacrifice. You have to let something else go to earn your MIT. It can be something that is now within your reach already, makes you feel warm and comfort, and fulfill your other needs. But again, it’s your MIT, so you have to let them go.

It might take all of your lifetime to find your MIT. But again, it’s your MIT anyway, so it’s worth all of your life. It might demand your extra effort, adjustment, struggling through uncomfortable zone in your life. It might caused confrontation and mind battling. But it’s your MIT.

My MIT is my family. What’s yours?